Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.

The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter,

"Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river."

The little girl said, "No, Dad. You hold my hand."

"What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father.

"There's a big difference," replied the little girl.

"If I hold your hand and something happens to me,

Chances are that I may let your hand go.

But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens,

You will never let my hand go."

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind,

But in its bond.

So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours...

This message is too short......but carries a lot of Feelings.

A mother is devastated, she is howling with pain, yelling
all she can in that dark and dingy corner of her four by four kholi.
There was nobody to hear her yell and not a soul to pacify her, because
outside her shack is a long winding lonely road. There was no existence of
mankind for miles and miles ahead. The wind was at rest, the leaves didn't
rustle and no resonance of a barking dog, silence filled the air. Loneliness
was already killing her, but no one knows what made her cry?

Losing something you love with all your heart isn't
really the grief you can ever overcome. Radha lost her baby. Her only means
to live. She saw her child getting crushed under a car in front of her own
eyes. Blood was all over and the accident was terrible. One lonely night,
she was walking down the street t get a breath of fresh air with her child
cuddled tight in her arms. She walked a long time s till she saw the face of
mankind (in the evilest form).

The whole time she walked with her child in her arms the
only thing that worried her was Aryans (her son's) future. What kind of a
person will he be? Will he make me proud? How much light is life going to
bring in his existence? She was imagining and feeling every day of the
Childs growth, and what she had in store for him. But who knows what's in
store for us tomorrow, life can change in the splits of a second. Talk about
destiny, all those dreams hopes and expectations were snatched away from her
in an instant. Her smiles were frowns and her faith just crumbled, like a
deal soul in a living, rather breathing body.

This is how it happened.. On that abandoned road, were a
few streetlights barely sufficient? There was this one light that was
visible from a distance, but as it came closer it got brighter and brighter.
That light changed radha's life into darkness forever. A speeding car came
down that road, as if the driver had jammed the accelerator, cutting across
the wind. He came at a speek of 110kmph throwing beer bottles out of his
half open window. He was definitely drunk, the speed took everything in its
path. Just then, there was a loud cry, and silence set in again. The cry of
a baby and no sight of a child.

Ironically the mother wasn't hurt, not a scratch on a
body, not a bruise on her arm. She opened her eyes and didn't she Aryan, her
vision was blur. After a few minutes when her sight cleared up she looked
all over frantically for her baby, but alas! There was nothing. Just then
she noticed something about then feet away it was blood draining into the
gutter's, and pieces of minced flesh, laying there saying so much without
saying anything at all. The blood of her baby, the
child who hadn't even seen life,

He paid the price for another man's folly. The
same little child whose future was just being planned.

Simple, don't
drink and drive. You could take a life, but kill a number of people.

BUT OFTEN STAY APART

Moments that we've shared, cannot be jotted down on paper,

But
nevertheless it was chemistry, not vapor,

You
walked into my life, and made the deepest mark,

This ignited my fire, which gave birth to a spark,

When you are here, I have the world with me,

It
is heaven; I wish it could be eternity,

We
walked side by side,

Hand in hand, under the moonlight,

The
touch of your hand, your presence worthwhile,

The
warmth that you give me makes me feel so secure,

I
will be with you in pain; I will be with you in cure!

As
the sun rose, and a new day just began,

You
leave my hand and told me it's all done,

I
know you have to go, but you'll stay by my side,

That look in your eyes, just seems to tell me more,

Though, the parting is a pain, our love seems to grow,

You
tell me not to cry, but, keep a positive heart,

"Because all good things don't stay together, but often stay apart."

The
day is finally here, when you leave me all alone,

Like an orphan misses a mother, and a homeless misses a home,

The
depth in your eyes, your touch and your feel,

Is
what I'll miss, I'll miss you for real,

That passion and that care, you've showered on me,

Are
all those special moments, and that's what they are going to be.

If
I had to give you something, that would remind you of me,

I'd
give you a house full of memories,

Because memories are things that go deeper into time,

We
can look back at them and revive all that, lasting for years to go,

We'll build it together and cherish it forever,

All
that we shared, we'd capture under lock and key,

And
make a life in that house, which is ideal for you and me.

Its
time for us to part, you'll be at the other end of the world,

Both of us with a totally shattered heart,

My
heart bleeds to see you depart,

I
will wait for you with bated breath,

I
will lead my life, but I will also fret,

Cause without you I am incomplete, the emptiness is there,

Only when you are with me again, will that hollowness disappear,

As
the sun goes down, with autumn all around,

Till the waters are blue, I will wait for you,

I
wish you luck for the times we're apart,

I
will miss you, don't worry I will convince my heart.

Everybody experiences stress. A certain amount is even good for you. Too much
stress can damage your physical, emotional, and mental health. Since it is not
always possible to prevent stress, we all need to learn how to reduce it. Choose
among the following techniques what you think will work best for you. Make them
part of your everyday life.

1. PREVENT IT. How much stress do you cause just by putting
unnecessary pressure on yourself? Do you over react to little things that annoy
you? Every time you let anger or frustration take control, it drains away good
energy and sidetracks you from more important things. Obviously, you can't
always control what goes on around you, but you can control how you respond. Try
a little more patience next time you get caught in traffic and you'll avoid
unnecessary stress.

2. SET GOALS. Some people drift through life going from crisis to
crisis letting stress build up. If you set goals, you can take better control of
your life. Think where you'd like to be in 1 year or 5 years. Be realistic by
starting with small, daily goals, then build up from there. Re-evaluate your
goals from time to time and be prepared to adjust them as changes occur in your
life.

3. ESTABLISH PRIORITIES. Do you often feel rushed because "there's no
time"? Why not regulate the pace of your life? Plan ahead. Make a list of tasks
in order of priority. Concentrate on what's really important to you and drop
those things that only waste your energy.

4. TAKE TIME OUT. Spend a few minutes alone each day to break the
routine. This helps ease stress and gives you a better perspective of what's
around you. Set aside time during the week for recreation, hobbies, or exercise.
Regular exercise is an excellent way to reduce stress. Physical fitness gives
you a feeling of well-being by relieving tension and increasing productivity.

5. HAVE FAITH. Peace of mind comes to those who trust in God's power
to lessen life's burdens through prayer.

6. THINK POSITIVELY. Having a positive attitude will help you assert
yourself and feel more in control. You waste energy if you constantly criticize
yourself or set unrealistic goals. Negative thoughts generally produce negative
results. Instead of saying, "I can't," practice saying, "I can." You'll be
surprised how much more you can accomplish.

7. HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR. Laughter can be one of the best medicines
for stress. Being able to laugh at yourself and the world can break tension and
give you some relief from stress.

8. COMMUNICATE. Suffering in silence only increases the stress you
build up inside. Talk over your feelings and concerns with your family, a
friend, counselor, preacher, or health professional. "Thinking out loud" like
this not only relieves stress, but may also shed new light on your problems.
Learn to listen and consider suggestions with an open mind.

9. MAKE DECISIONS. Most people have no idea how much stress they
create for themselves by resisting change. They wait, hoping a situation will go
back to the way it was. Why wait when you have choices and could make a
decision? When it's time to change old habits and move forward, make your own
change for the better.

Everybody experiences stress. A certain amount is even good for you. Too much
stress can damage your physical, emotional, and mental health. Since it is not
always possible to prevent stress, we all need to learn how to reduce it. Choose
among the following techniques what you think will work best for you. Make them
part of your everyday life.

1. PREVENT IT. How much stress do you cause just by putting
unnecessary pressure on yourself? Do you over react to little things that annoy
you? Every time you let anger or frustration take control, it drains away good
energy and sidetracks you from more important things. Obviously, you can't
always control what goes on around you, but you can control how you respond. Try
a little more patience next time you get caught in traffic and you'll avoid
unnecessary stress.

2. SET GOALS. Some people drift through life going from crisis to
crisis letting stress build up. If you set goals, you can take better control of
your life. Think where you'd like to be in 1 year or 5 years. Be realistic by
starting with small, daily goals, then build up from there. Re-evaluate your
goals from time to time and be prepared to adjust them as changes occur in your
life.

3. ESTABLISH PRIORITIES. Do you often feel rushed because "there's no
time"? Why not regulate the pace of your life? Plan ahead. Make a list of tasks
in order of priority. Concentrate on what's really important to you and drop
those things that only waste your energy.

4. TAKE TIME OUT. Spend a few minutes alone each day to break the
routine. This helps ease stress and gives you a better perspective of what's
around you. Set aside time during the week for recreation, hobbies, or exercise.
Regular exercise is an excellent way to reduce stress. Physical fitness gives
you a feeling of well-being by relieving tension and increasing productivity.

5. HAVE FAITH. Peace of mind comes to those who trust in God's power
to lessen life's burdens through prayer.

6. THINK POSITIVELY. Having a positive attitude will help you assert
yourself and feel more in control. You waste energy if you constantly criticize
yourself or set unrealistic goals. Negative thoughts generally produce negative
results. Instead of saying, "I can't," practice saying, "I can." You'll be
surprised how much more you can accomplish.

7. HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR. Laughter can be one of the best medicines
for stress. Being able to laugh at yourself and the world can break tension and
give you some relief from stress.

8. COMMUNICATE. Suffering in silence only increases the stress you
build up inside. Talk over your feelings and concerns with your family, a
friend, counselor, preacher, or health professional. "Thinking out loud" like
this not only relieves stress, but may also shed new light on your problems.
Learn to listen and consider suggestions with an open mind.

9. MAKE DECISIONS. Most people have no idea how much stress they
create for themselves by resisting change. They wait, hoping a situation will go
back to the way it was. Why wait when you have choices and could make a
decision? When it's time to change old habits and move forward, make your own
change for the better.