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Monday 8 September, 2008
 12:27 | 31/Mar/2008 |  2 Comment(s)
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Food for Thought


People always come into your
life for a reason, a season and a lifetime. When you figure out which it
is, you know exactly what to do.



When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need
you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you
through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid
you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a
godsend to you, and they are. They are there for a reason,you need them to
be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up
or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our
need has been met, our desire fulfilleed; their work is done. The prayer
you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.





When people come
into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share,
grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you
laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give
you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a
season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season
eventually ends.




LIFETIME, relationships teach
you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to
have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love
the person/people (anyway);, and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind
but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being part of my life.
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