A short story with a beautiful message...

Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.

The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter,

"Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river."

The little girl said, "No, Dad. You hold my hand."

"What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father.

"There's a big difference," replied the little girl.

"If I hold your hand and something happens to me,

Chances are that I may let your hand go.

But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens,

You will never let my hand go."

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind,

But in its bond.

So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours...

This message is too short......but carries a lot of Feelings.

One life gone, 2 people dead !

A mother is devastated, she is howling with pain, yelling
all she can in that dark and dingy corner of her four by four kholi.
There was nobody to hear her yell and not a soul to pacify her, because
outside her shack is a long winding lonely road. There was no existence of
mankind for miles and miles ahead. The wind was at rest, the leaves didn’t
rustle and no resonance of a barking dog, silence filled the air. Loneliness
was already killing her, but no one knows what made her cry?

Losing something you love with all your heart isn’t
really the grief you can ever overcome. Radha lost her baby. Her only means
to live. She saw her child getting crushed under a car in front of her own
eyes. Blood was all over and the accident was terrible. One lonely night,
she was walking  down the street t get a breath of fresh air with her child
cuddled tight in her arms. She walked a long time s till she saw the face of
mankind (in the evilest form).

The whole time she walked with her child in her arms the
only thing that worried her was Aryans (her son’s) future. What kind of a
person will he be? Will he make me proud? How much light is life going to
bring in his existence? She was imagining and feeling every day of the
Childs growth, and what she had in store for him. But who knows what’s in
store for us tomorrow, life can change in the splits of a second. Talk about
destiny, all those dreams hopes and expectations were snatched away from her
in an instant. Her smiles were frowns and her faith just crumbled, like a
deal soul in a living, rather breathing body.

This is how it happened…. On that abandoned road, were a
few streetlights barely sufficient? There was this one light  that was
visible from a distance, but as it came closer it got brighter and brighter.
That light changed radha’s life into darkness forever. A speeding car came
down that road, as if the driver had jammed the accelerator, cutting across
the wind. He came at a speek of 110kmph throwing beer bottles out of his
half open window. He was definitely drunk, the speed took everything in its
path.  Just then, there was a loud cry, and silence set in again. The cry of
a baby and no sight of a child.

Ironically the mother wasn’t hurt, not a scratch on a
body, not a bruise on her arm. She opened her eyes and didn’t she Aryan, her
vision was blur. After a few minutes when her sight cleared up she looked
all over frantically for her baby, but alas! There was nothing. Just then
she noticed something about then feet away it was blood draining into the
gutter’s, and pieces of minced flesh, laying there saying so much without
saying anything at all. The blood of her baby, the
child who hadn’t even seen life,

He paid the price for another man’s folly. The
same little child whose future was just being planned.

Simple, don’t
drink and drive. You could take a life, but kill a number of people.

GOOD THINGS DON’T STAY TOGETHER,

BUT OFTEN STAY APART

Moments that we’ve shared, cannot be jotted down on paper,

But
nevertheless it was chemistry, not vapor,

You
walked into my life, and made the deepest mark,

This ignited my fire, which gave birth to a spark,

When you are here, I have the world with me,

It
is heaven; I wish it could be eternity,

We
walked side by side,

Hand in hand, under the moonlight,

The
touch of your hand, your presence worthwhile,

The
warmth that you give me makes me feel so secure,

I
will be with you in pain; I will be with you in cure!

As
the sun rose, and a new day just began,

You
leave my hand and told me it’s all done,

I
know you have to go, but you’ll stay by my side,

That look in your eyes, just seems to tell me more,

Though, the parting is a pain, our love seems to grow,

You
tell me not to cry, but, keep a positive heart,

“Because all good things don’t stay together, but often stay apart.”

The
day is finally here, when you leave me all alone,

Like an orphan misses a mother, and a homeless misses a home,

The
depth in your eyes, your touch and your feel,

Is
what I’ll miss, I’ll miss you for real,

That passion and that care, you’ve showered on me,

Are
all those special moments, and that’s what they are going to be.

If
I had to give you something, that would remind you of me,

I’d
give you a house full of memories,

Because memories are things that go deeper into time,

We
can look back at them and revive all that, lasting for years to go,

We’ll build it together and cherish it forever,

All
that we shared, we’d capture under lock and key,

And
make a life in that house, which is ideal for you and me.

Its
time for us to part, you’ll be at the other end of the world,

Both of us with a totally shattered heart,

My
heart bleeds to see you depart,

I
will wait for you with bated breath,

I
will lead my life, but I will also fret,

Cause without you I am incomplete, the emptiness is there,

Only when you are with me again, will that hollowness disappear,

As
the sun goes down, with autumn all around,

Till the waters are blue, I will wait for you,

I
wish you luck for the times we‘re apart,

I
will miss you, don’t worry I will convince my heart.

LEARNING TO HANDLE STRESS

Everybody experiences stress. A certain amount is even good for you. Too much
stress can damage your physical, emotional, and mental health. Since it is not
always possible to prevent stress, we all need to learn how to reduce it. Choose
among the following techniques what you think will work best for you. Make them
part of your everyday life.

1. PREVENT IT. How much stress do you cause just by putting
unnecessary pressure on yourself? Do you over react to little things that annoy
you? Every time you let anger or frustration take control, it drains away good
energy and sidetracks you from more important things. Obviously, you can't
always control what goes on around you, but you can control how you respond. Try
a little more patience next time you get caught in traffic and you'll avoid
unnecessary stress.

2. SET GOALS. Some people drift through life going from crisis to
crisis letting stress build up. If you set goals, you can take better control of
your life. Think where you'd like to be in 1 year or 5 years. Be realistic by
starting with small, daily goals, then build up from there. Re-evaluate your
goals from time to time and be prepared to adjust them as changes occur in your
life.

3. ESTABLISH PRIORITIES. Do you often feel rushed because "there's no
time"? Why not regulate the pace of your life? Plan ahead. Make a list of tasks
in order of priority. Concentrate on what's really important to you and drop
those things that only waste your energy.

4. TAKE TIME OUT. Spend a few minutes alone each day to break the
routine. This helps ease stress and gives you a better perspective of what's
around you. Set aside time during the week for recreation, hobbies, or exercise.
Regular exercise is an excellent way to reduce stress. Physical fitness gives
you a feeling of well-being by relieving tension and increasing productivity.

5. HAVE FAITH. Peace of mind comes to those who trust in God's power
to lessen life's burdens through prayer.

6. THINK POSITIVELY. Having a positive attitude will help you assert
yourself and feel more in control. You waste energy if you constantly criticize
yourself or set unrealistic goals. Negative thoughts generally produce negative
results. Instead of saying, "I can't," practice saying, "I can." You'll be
surprised how much more you can accomplish.

7. HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR. Laughter can be one of the best medicines
for stress. Being able to laugh at yourself and the world can break tension and
give you some relief from stress.

8. COMMUNICATE. Suffering in silence only increases the stress you
build up inside. Talk over your feelings and concerns with your family, a
friend, counselor, preacher, or health professional. "Thinking out loud" like
this not only relieves stress, but may also shed new light on your problems.
Learn to listen and consider suggestions with an open mind.

9. MAKE DECISIONS. Most people have no idea how much stress they
create for themselves by resisting change. They wait, hoping a situation will go
back to the way it was. Why wait when you have choices and could make a
decision? When it's time to change old habits and move forward, make your own
change for the better.

LEARNING TO HANDLE STRESS

Everybody experiences stress. A certain amount is even good for you. Too much
stress can damage your physical, emotional, and mental health. Since it is not
always possible to prevent stress, we all need to learn how to reduce it. Choose
among the following techniques what you think will work best for you. Make them
part of your everyday life.

1. PREVENT IT. How much stress do you cause just by putting
unnecessary pressure on yourself? Do you over react to little things that annoy
you? Every time you let anger or frustration take control, it drains away good
energy and sidetracks you from more important things. Obviously, you can't
always control what goes on around you, but you can control how you respond. Try
a little more patience next time you get caught in traffic and you'll avoid
unnecessary stress.

2. SET GOALS. Some people drift through life going from crisis to
crisis letting stress build up. If you set goals, you can take better control of
your life. Think where you'd like to be in 1 year or 5 years. Be realistic by
starting with small, daily goals, then build up from there. Re-evaluate your
goals from time to time and be prepared to adjust them as changes occur in your
life.

3. ESTABLISH PRIORITIES. Do you often feel rushed because "there's no
time"? Why not regulate the pace of your life? Plan ahead. Make a list of tasks
in order of priority. Concentrate on what's really important to you and drop
those things that only waste your energy.

4. TAKE TIME OUT. Spend a few minutes alone each day to break the
routine. This helps ease stress and gives you a better perspective of what's
around you. Set aside time during the week for recreation, hobbies, or exercise.
Regular exercise is an excellent way to reduce stress. Physical fitness gives
you a feeling of well-being by relieving tension and increasing productivity.

5. HAVE FAITH. Peace of mind comes to those who trust in God's power
to lessen life's burdens through prayer.

6. THINK POSITIVELY. Having a positive attitude will help you assert
yourself and feel more in control. You waste energy if you constantly criticize
yourself or set unrealistic goals. Negative thoughts generally produce negative
results. Instead of saying, "I can't," practice saying, "I can." You'll be
surprised how much more you can accomplish.

7. HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR. Laughter can be one of the best medicines
for stress. Being able to laugh at yourself and the world can break tension and
give you some relief from stress.

8. COMMUNICATE. Suffering in silence only increases the stress you
build up inside. Talk over your feelings and concerns with your family, a
friend, counselor, preacher, or health professional. "Thinking out loud" like
this not only relieves stress, but may also shed new light on your problems.
Learn to listen and consider suggestions with an open mind.

9. MAKE DECISIONS. Most people have no idea how much stress they
create for themselves by resisting change. They wait, hoping a situation will go
back to the way it was. Why wait when you have choices and could make a
decision? When it's time to change old habits and move forward, make your own
change for the better.

A man stopped at a flower shop to order some flowers to
be wired to his mother who lived two hundred miles away.
As he got out of his car he noticed a young girl sitting on the curb sobbing.

He asked her what was wrong and she replied, "I wanted to buy a red rose for my
mother.

But I only have seventy-five cents, and a rose costs two dollars."

The man smiled and said, "Come on in with me. I'll buy you a rose."

He bought the little girl her rose and ordered his own mother's flowers.

As they were leaving he offered the girl a ride home.

She said, "Yes, please! You can take me to my mother."

She directed him to a cemetery, where she placed the rose on a freshly dug
grave.

The man returned to the flower shop, canceled the wire order, picked up a
bouquet and drove the two hundred miles to his mother's house.

If one day you feel like
crying...

Call me.

I don't promise that I will make you laugh,

But I can cry with you.

If one day you want to run away--

Don't be afraid to call me.

I don't promise to ask you to stop...

But I can run with you.

If one day you don't want
to listen

to anyone...

Call me.

I promise to be there for you.

And I promise to be very quiet.

But if one day you call...

And there is no answer...

Come fast to see me.

Perhaps I need you.

People always come into your
life for a reason, a season and a lifetime. When you figure out which it
is, you know exactly what to do.


When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need
you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you
through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid
you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a
godsend to you, and they are. They are there for a reason,you need them to
be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up
or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our
need has been met, our desire fulfilleed; their work is done. The prayer
you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.




When people come
into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share,
grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you
laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give
you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a
season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season
eventually ends.



LIFETIME, relationships teach
you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to
have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love
the person/people (anyway);, and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind
but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being part of my life..

The story goes that some time ago, a man punished his 3-year-old
daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he
became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the
Christmas tree. Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the
next morning and said, "This is for you, Daddy."

The man was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction, but his anger flared again
when he found out the box was empty. He yelled at her, stating, "Don't you know,
when you give someone a present, there is supposed to be something inside? The
little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and cried, "Oh, Daddy, it's
not empty at all. I blew kisses into the box. They're all for you, Daddy."


The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged
for her forgiveness.


Only a short time later, an accident took the life of the child. It is also told
that her father kept that gold box by his bed for many years and, whenever he
was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of
the child who had put it there.






In a very real sense, each one of us, as
humans beings, have been given a gold container filled with unconditional love
and kisses... from our children, family members, friends, and God. There is
simply no other possession, anyone could hold, more precious than this.

 India is the largest Democracy in the World.
The number system was invented by India. Aryabhatta was the scientist who invented the digit zero.
    
 Sushruta is the father of surgery. 2600 years ago he and health scientists of his time conducted complicated surgeries like cesareans, cataract, artificial limbs, fractures, urinary stones and even plastic surgery and brain surgery. Usage of anesthesia was well known in ancient India. Over 125 surgical equipment were used. Deep knowledge of anatomy, physiology, etiology, mbryology, digestion, metabolism, genetics and immunity is also found in many texts.

Ayurveda is the earliest school of medicine known to humans. Charaka, the father of medicine consolidated Ayurveda 2500 years ago. Today Ayurveda is fast regaining its rightful place in our civilization.
 
   
 

   
Usage of anesthesia was well known in ancient India medicine. Detailed knowledge of anatomy, embryology, digestion, metabolism, physiology, etiology, genetics and immunity is also found in many ancient Indian texts.
   
India is one of the few countries in the World, which gained independence without using violence.
   
 Sanskrit, the oldest language in the World, originated from India.
( Sanskrit is considered as the mother of all higher languages. This is because it is the most precise, and therefore suitable language for computer software. ( a report in Forbes magazine, July 1987 ).
   
 The greatest games of all, CHESS and PLAYING CARDS originated from India.
   
The Art of Meditation and Yoga originated from India.

 India has the most post offices in the world !
   
Martial Arts (karate and Judo) originated from India, not China.
   
Algebra, Trigonometry and Calculus are studies which originated in India.( Algebra, trigonometry and calculus also orignated from India. Quadratic equations were used by Sridharacharya in the 11th century. The largest numbers the Greeks and the Romans used were 106 whereas Hindus used numbers as big as 10*53 ( i.e 10 to the power of 53 ) with specific names as early as 5000 B.C. during the Vedic period. Even today, the largest used number is Tera: 10*12( 10 to the power of 12 ).
   
The World's first University was established in Takshila, India, in 700BC. More than 10,500 students from all over the world studied more than 60 subjects. The University of Nalanda built in the 4th century BC was one of the greatest achievements of ancient India in the field of education.
   
 India has never invaded any country in her last 10,000 years of history.
   
 Everything which was either discovered or invented by the Hindus in India was cleverly denied authenticity and downplayed by those who came to rule India, the Arabs and the British.
   
 The ancient Indian astronomers had tabulated the movement and positions of the sun, planets and the stars in space, long before Isaac Newton came up with the theory of gravity after the apple had fallen on his head.
   
 USA based IEEE has proved what has been a century old suspicion in the world scientific community that the pioneer of wireless communication was Prof. Jagdeesh Bose and not Marconi.
   
 Cleverly termed by the west as Arabic numerals simply because the Arabs brought the knowledge of India to the West after invading India. Hindsaa (numerals) in Arabic means from India.
   
 India was the most peaceful country on earth before the Arab invasion in the 8th Century.
   
The art of Navigation was born in the river Sindh 6000 years ago. The very word Navigation is derived from the Sanskrit word NAVGATIH. The word navy is also derived from Sanskrit 'Nou'.
   
Bhaskaracharya calculated the time taken by the earth to orbit the sun hundreds of years before the astronomer Smart. Time taken by earth to orbit the sun: (5th century) 365.258756484 days.
   
Budhayana first calculated the value of "pi", and he explained the concept of what is known as the Pythagorean Theorem. He discovered this in the 6th century long before the European mathematicians.
   
The world's highest cricket ground is in Chail, Himachal Pradesh.Built in 1893 after levelling a hilltop, this cricket pitch is 2444 meters above sea level.
   
The largest employer in the world is the Indian railway system, employing over a million people !.
   
The Baily Bridge is the highest bridge in the world. It is located in the Ladakh valley between the Dras and Suru rivers in the Himalayan mountains. It was built by the Indian Army in August 1982.